14 November 2025

Cousins

In the autumn of 2023, our youngest grandchildren - Zachary and Margot were born just nine days apart. They were due on the same date but these so-called "due dates" never seem to work out do they?

Today, Shirley and I had the pleasure of looking after both of them together for several hours. Ian had come up from London to attend the funeral of  the mother of one of his best friends. She was only sixty three. Meantime, our daughter, Frances, was down in London to attend a reunion of former work colleagues and to visit her friend Kira who recently gave birth to a second baby girl.

For us, it was a double whammy. Two two year old grandchildren for the price of one.

Physically, they are pretty different. Zach is a slender, copper-haired livewire who can play endlessly with little toy cars and diggers - whereas Margot is a sturdy blue-eyed cherub who, without encouragement, has shown an affection for dolls. Perhaps it is a nascent maternal urge. When it comes to physical development charts for two year olds, she is most definitely in the very top percentile. She is a couple of inches taller than Zach and much heavier too.

With Zach living down in London, the two little cousins have not met up very often so today was quite special. At the top of this blogpost, you can see them sitting on my computer chair watching yet another YouTube version of "The Wheels on the Bus". They also enjoyed versions of "Old Macdonald had a Farm" and "Incy Wincy Spider".

Later, Shirley had the two of them on her lap in her easy chair in the dining room. They are enjoying a book together. Grandma is probably their favourite human and it is a role that she thoroughly enjoys...

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  1. I love these photos, especially the one with Grandma. That's quite a lapful.

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    1. That's why I grabbed my camera Kelly.

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  2. 2s are interesting and 3s even more so! They are adorable with such kissable cheeks. Little ones are mini humans with such unique personalities and likes/dislikes. I learn a lot from my grandsons--about them AND myself. That's an excellent photo of Shirley with the grands; she's beaming with happiness. I have pictures of me like that with my little guys. Nothing better!

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    1. You are right to suggest that it is a two-way process Margaret.

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  3. I love that last photo. Shirley is a beautiful woman and she looks so happy to have her grandkids sitting on her lap.

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    1. Her face is nice simply because she was happy and smiling - whereas the "Face" that I blogged about two days ago was in resting mode.

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    1. They are more blurry than I would have liked Debra.

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  5. It's always a thrill to have grand kids visit.

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    1. You realise how precious this time is. It will never come again.

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  6. Sounds like a delightful afternoon. I wish my twins would sit still for story reading. They prefer turning the pages and naming everything on every page, then running outside to the swings and mini trampoline and mini basketball hoops, their favourite is anything that holds water to be played with. I love your photos.

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    1. It is only very recently that Margot has begun to sit through a whole book.

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  7. Such pure happiness radiates from the picture of the two with Shirley!
    Did Phoebe join you all after school?

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    1. No she did not. She had a sleepover here on Thursday night.

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  8. You have such lovely grandchildren. I'm sure they will do well in life. The mystery of how you pulled such a hot looking babe remains.

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    1. It was my "Wild Beast" aftershave lotion that did it.

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  9. Gorgeous kids, and good to see beautiful Shirley! An up to date photo of your handsome self would be nice too. ( Oh ....and a quiz soon?)

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    1. You are a very demanding woman Frances. No wonder your husband has reported you to Amnesty International.

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  10. You know I'm a lazy oik when it comes to commenting but the photo of Shirley and the little ones is so beautiful. Hope all is well in your corner of the world. X

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    1. Thanks for mustering the energy to leave a comment Christina. You still have not apologised for Blackburn Rovers defeating Hull City earlier this season.

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    2. I didn't think they'd won a match all season! Shows what I think of football.😂

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  11. A happy family photo to treasure.

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    1. Indeed. Trouble is these days that so many digital photos are seen on screen and then gone.

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  12. A beautiful reunion. I am sure they will stay close for the rest of their lives.

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  13. And soon a photo of the grandmother and grandfather with all of grandchildren.

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  14. Happy Happy Family.
    Now get Grandpa in there!

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  15. Beautiful photos of beautiful human beings.

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  16. I liked it when my cousin used to come to see us, and wished they had not lived away. She is now probably the relative I feel closest to, other than direct family. We always have lots to talk about, and lots in common.

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  17. It's great to see the cousins together. I only met up with my cousins once or twice a year when I was a kid, but we always looked forward to it.

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  18. Beautiful photos of beautiful grandchildren and a very happy Grandma! Love the look of complete concentration on Margot's face on the top one and Zak's face on the second one.

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  19. Sweet photos! Shirley is a beautiful woman!

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  20. Fabulous! Shirley looks so happy and I love the way Zach is looking wonderingly at Margot.

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  21. What absolute treasures. Such beautiful children (with an equally beautiful grandma) at that entrancing age when their minds are bubbling over with curiosity and wonder. Gorgeous. Just gorgeous.

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