16 January 2026

Richard

Just a week ago, referring to Richard Hines and his wife Jackie, I wrote this:

I believe that Richard and Jackie have now moved down to Sussex to be close to their daughter and her family but until fairly recently they lived just fifty yards from us near the junction at the bottom of our stretch of road... I would have liked to shake Richard's hand and ask him a few questions.

But I was wrong. Richard and Jackie did not move! They are still in the house they have lived in since 1981.

This morning, Shirley paved the way. She was passing their house when she saw a woman conversing with her neighbour in the passageway. Shirley asked the woman if she was Mrs Hines and somewhat surprised, Jackie confirmed it.

After a little explanation,  they went inside and Shirley was introduced to Richard. He was sitting in an armchair drinking soup from a bowl. He is not a well man and at the age of eighty he is suffering from hydrocephalus, awaiting a vital draining operation. His balance has been affected and he is now pretty much housebound.

Anyway, Shirley asked if I could also pay them  a visit - to which they wholeheartedly agreed. Somewhat nervously, this afternoon I went round and knocked on their door. I did not emerge from inside for three hours.

They were three glorious hours in which the conversation flowed naturally. Richard has retained his brusque Yorkshire coalfield accent. We talked about many things - not just about "Kes" and Richard's more famous brother Barry - but also about education, Nigeria, Fiji, The 1984-85 miners' strike,  our grandchildren, film-making, the ruling class, the construction of the M1 motorway, "Hamnet", Stanage Edge and poetry. There were other things too.

Jackie showed me some of her excellent artwork and Richard signed his book for me. Actually, he signed two books because as well as "No Way But Gentlenesse", he has also written a second memoir  titled, "The Place That Knows Me". My copy arrived at our house just two days ago.

Kindly, they gave me spare copies of these books to pass on to our neighbour Janet who was also, like me,  an English teacher in a mining village for several years.  Like me, she also taught "Kes" many times, not knowing that the lad who inspired the writing of that iconic book had been living just round the corner from us for years.

Yes. It was a memorable afternoon - one that I will not forget in a hurry. I promised Richard that when I have finished "The Place That Knows Me" I will call round again. I also left him our phone number in case he needs anything. With his health issue, he is not driving any more. and Jackie never passed her driving test.

40 comments:

  1. I am happy to hear that Richard Hines has not left his bailiwick.
    Sorry to hear he is housebound. Delighted you and he talked for three hours.
    I would enjoy listening to Richard's coalfield accent.

    Well done, Shirley. For paving the way.

    Places that know us. A Beautiful thought.
    I would like to hear all your fine commenters talking about their places.

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    1. My fine commenters tend to be bashful Mr Haggerty.

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  2. Wow! What an enjoyable visit you had. I wouldn't be brave like Shirley to speak up like she did but bravo for her!

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    1. As I say, until yesterday, I thought they had moved south.

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  3. Wow! How wonderful, Neil. A glorious afternoon, indeed.

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    1. I am glad that you understand Jennifer.

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  4. What a wonderful day! I'm sure the visit was enjoyed equally on both sides.

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    1. I could tell that the health issue has brought him down, narrowed his life and made the afternoons quite tedious so an interested stranger being there was stimulating for him.

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  5. When you meet the author some things make much more sense.

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    1. A humble, rather ordinary man who was at times just "Barry Hines's brother".

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  6. What a wonderful thing to happen, three hours of easy conversation and book signing too. "The Place That Knows Me" might be an interesting read.

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    1. I plan to read it before I see Richard again.

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  7. That's pretty special. (First instinct was "Wow!" but beaten to it twice already.)

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    1. Thrilling and I am glad that nervousness did not get the better of me.

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  8. Well, that is so nice. Good on Shirley's... I shouldn't say forwardness, perhaps bravery, and what a rich reward resulted.

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  9. How wonderful to meet someone you have admired from afar and have the opportunity to connect with so successfully.

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    1. Considering his health situation he could drop dead any day so I am very glad that he is still alive.

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  10. I am so excited for you. That conversation was rich and deep and you could become firm friends.
    Or maybe I wear rose tinted glasses.
    Great work, Shirl!

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    1. We will see how it goes Kylie. I will be round there again next week.

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  11. A memorable afternoon for you. Like many others I read A Kestral for a Knave at school and remember feeling heartbroken for Billy. I wonder what would have happened to him in adult life, if there had been a sequel to the book.

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    1. Ha! Now there's a thing Debbie. I might talk to Richard about that idea.

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  12. What a pleasant way to spend the afternoon.

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    1. I was going to head out for another walk but then this golden opportunity came along.

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  13. What an amazing experience. Sounds like he got as much from the encounter as you did.

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    1. It was a two way meeting but also his wife chipped in and I tried to engage with her. She's quite timid but very nice.

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  14. Again, I will say what a good, decent kind man you are; there are so few of you left in the world.

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    1. What about you Bob? Are you good and decent too?

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  15. That must be up there with one of the most interesting moments of your life. To have admired and studied someone from afar and then to actually meet them must have been amazing.

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    1. I said to him, "It was a privilege to meet you Richard" and I meant it.

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  16. Now isn't that just the best? I love it!

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    1. Yes. He put me at ease and we conversed as equals. He wanted to know more about my life too.

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  17. How wonderful that this worked out so well. An amazing coincidence that you were just writing about him and now you are friends!

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  18. That's fantastic! I'm so glad you got to meet him and spend some time with him. What an amazing experience that must have been. Maybe he will motivate you to write your own memoir?

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  19. How good that Shirley spotted Mrs. Hines and talked to her, which lead to this wonderful afternoon!
    When I‘m in Ripon in July, I will look for the memoir at my favourite, The Little Ripon Bookshop.

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  20. How very lucky you got to spend time with this interesting, intelligent couple. May I suggest that you write a book about them? I would buy it.

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