This is Matty and Kelly Clarke, They are expecting their first baby together. How lovely! What can be more delightful, more special, more heart-warming than the birth of baby - especially a baby that is wanted and will be very loved and cared for. They are expecting a little boy.
But this is where they live - a remote corner of southern Newfoundland in Canada:-
There are no roads to St Joseph's Island and the only way out is by boat. Confusingly, there is another St Joseph's Island over in Ontario and I thank Gillian in Canada for correcting me about this.
This is Kelly and Matty's house. They have been working on it for the past fourteen months - making improvements, adding rooms, insulating it. They have even created a small solar facility to satisfy their electricity needs.
Every week they vlog about their life on a heart-warming channel called "Skote Outdoors" . I have blogged about them before.
Currently, they are all alone on the island. Kelly is nine months pregnant and even as I write this blogpost the baby boy may have already been born. However, he was not with us last Sunday and like many other followers of "Skote Outdoors" I look forward to tomorrow's video in the fervent hope that an uncomplicated, healthy birth will have occurred and all will be just dandy.
But the new parents-to-be are far from assistance by medical professionals, including midwives and they are seventy miles from expert hospital care in St John's - the capital of Newfoundland.
Most of their vlog followers have been urging them to change their minds and seek modern medical care for the birth - hoping that nothing goes wrong but knowing for sure that tragedy could so easily happen in these circumstances.
Below, these comments are typical of what "Skote Outdoors" visitors have been saying for the last two or three weeks. You might recognise the author of the third comment:-
@worldtravelerxoxo1201 6 days ago
Kelly if you read this, from woman to woman, Virginian to Virginian, if you haven’t delivered by 42 weeks 0 days please go see a doctor and get checked out. Placenta failure / big baby (possible c section may be needed). I’m a mama of 3 and I tell you the first baby there is so much unknowns and with each pregnancy it can be completely different. I’m looking out for you and the baby.
sending love and prayers 
@gillyquilly 5 days ago
Kelly, when my water broke, and I went into labor with my firstborn 39 years ago, I thought it was going to go smoothly as my husband sped me to the hospital in the middle of the night. The doctor told us immediately that my daughter's blood pressure was dangerously low and that I needed an emergency C-section. I didn't get to see her until the next day in the nursery. She had an IV on the side of her head and was diagnosed with jaundice. Anything can go wrong; you just don't know, and you should be prepared. Love and prayers to you and Matty for a smooth and happy delivery.
@yorkshire pudding4431 4 days ago
I hope with all my heart that everything works out fine - a healthy little baby boy and happy, contented new parents. But-but-but it could all go so terribly wrong. There's no coming back from death and you owe it to that little boy to give him the best possible chance of life. People who take out fire insurance rarely have to cope with a fire but they know that it could happen and that is why they pay up.
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I am not a praying person myself but if you are a praying person, may I request that you pray for Kelly Clarke, her husband and their baby boy. Dear God - May all be well - Amen.

I am a praying person and I will do so. Despite my mother and sister having quick, easy births, I did not follow suit and ended up having complications. As you said, it could all go so terribly wrong. Please let us know the news from tomorrow's video.
ReplyDelete🤞🤞Fingers crossed that all is well or went well and mother and baby are both fine and healthy. Does Dad know what to do and how to help?
ReplyDeleteI could have done without hearing about all the things that can go wrong with a birth...my youngest son and wife are expecting their first child next week!
ReplyDeleteCountless births happen every day on this planet, with little or no assistance to the mother. With many of them all goes well, with some it doesn't. There's just no telling what is going to happen. Of course, like you, I hope that Kelly's and Matt's little boy comes into this world without any trouble. He'll be very welcome and loved by this parents.
ReplyDeleteStarting to read your post, I thought the couple looked and their story sounded familiar. I just followed the link back to your previous post about them and saw that I had commented back then, too.
There are times when a medical professional is need and I think childbirth is one of those times.
ReplyDeleteThere are deep ethical debates on when risk is a rational choice. Access to care, reduces the risk of maternal mortality. 200 years ago about 4% of women died in childbirth or from post-complications (about 1% per birth, but the average woman gave birth 4 times in her lifetime.)
ReplyDeleteWhat people forget is that there are many, many instances these days of medical technology being used in childbirth when it is unwarranted and unneeded and these interventions can and do sometimes result in complications that would not have occurred if nature had been allowed to take its course.
ReplyDeleteHaving said that, I would feel a lot better about having a baby so far from a hospital if there were a trained midwife at my side with equipment that could be needed in an emergency situation. Is there anyone going to be able to be with them who has any experience with childbirth?
And you know what? This is not our decision to make and that's the bottom line.
Your map and comments are confusing. You show St. Joseph's Island in Ontario but talk about Newfoundland. Birth is always a very difficult procedure. Having attended a 24 how birth in the Arctic, 300 miles from the doctor is something you don't want to see.
ReplyDeleteAll the best for them to not need any assistance. Yes, a lot of women in the world in the past and now have had babies without help but there is another statistic that means I am so very, very glad that I had medical assistance for both of my girls.
ReplyDeleteA comment on going gently
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Sorry John to hijack your post, but I tried to comment on YP’s recent post about Skote and the imminent birth of their baby. Couldn’t find an email address either to connect with you, YP. YP, please take that map down … that is St Joseph’s Island, Ontario which is not at all remote and is definitely not St Joseph’s, Newfoundland which is on the east coast of Canada. Gillian, Canada
Best of luck to them and their little baby boy. If they know it is a boy, they must have had prenatal care so that's good.
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