22 February 2025

Hermit

I am home alone like Kevin McAllister. Shirley went off with a bunch of local women friends yesterday. They have rented a house in a small coastal town called Hornsea which, coincidentally, figured importantly in my teenage years. It is just six miles from the village where I was born and raised.

This morning I rolled over at 7am, pressed the button on our radio alarm clock and drifted back to sleep as the radio churned out news from home and abroad. I finally got up at 9am.

Weatherwise, today was quite nice - bright and dry with temperatures hovering around 12°C. I considered undertaking another long walk somewhere but instead chose to tackle a job in the garden. I didn't even need  to don a coat.

Several days ago, I trimmed a little tree that hangs over the path halfway up our long, rectangular garden. This involved standing near the top of an aluminium stepladder six feet above the ground. It also required the use of a saw and secateurs.
All through the winter, I had been noticing how many long shoots had burst from that tree, reaching up to the sky. It had been pruned before but  the last time was perhaps three or four years ago. This time I remembered to wear safety glasses to prevent sawdust from getting in my eyes.

In two sessions, I managed to cut away all the troublesome shoots. Some of them were up to twenty feet long. I laid half of them on our lawn and the other half under the apple tree that is next to the stump of our Ian's old horse chestnut tree.

Then some wet days came along so I  delayed processing those long, spindly branches. I planned to clip away side growths and finish up with long shoots and thin branches for possible use in a side project that arrived in my imagination a few nights ago. I had the idea of weaving some rustic border edging - only about six inches high. This will require a number of short poles to be hammered in the ground at intervals. Well, we will see if that daydream materialises in the coming weeks.

At half past four, I came back in the house ready to watch a big rugby union international - England versus Scotland in the annual Six Nations Championship. It was a gripping game in which there were various missed opportunities but in the end I am delighted to say that England won by sixteen points to fifteen. To borrow from Scotland's national anthem - we sent them homeward "to think again".

For my late evening meal I had a baked potato, fine green beans, fried onions and mushrooms with a fine rump steak that I had bought in anticipation of this solitary day. To accompany the meal, I treated myself to a glass of "Kinvale" cabernet sauvignon wine from South Australia.

Soon "Match of the Day" will be on BBC 1 as it is every Saturday night during the football season. I haven't spoken to a soul all day - either in person or over the
telephone. Perhaps we could all do with days like this once in a while.

36 comments:

  1. sounds pretty good to me..... apart from all the sport...... if Dawn wasn't here i'd gladly pass through life without speaking to anyone!!

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    1. And there was me thinking that you were the life and soul of the party. Mr Greg Arious.

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    2. i only said that to avoid the obvious response to this post of.... "stick" it to the man..... mebbe i could submit your stick vicariously to the "look at my stick" facebook group?

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  2. I like days when I don't talk to people.

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    1. Being quiet and no demands upon us either - a kind of medicine.

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  3. I think everyone needs a day like that once in a while, maybe even once a week! I have them all the time, long lazy days doing whatever comes to mind with no one else to account for except the cat and Lola is good about keeping quiet until she gets hungry.

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    1. The Kinks sang a song about Lola. I think she was transgender.

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  4. Talking to no one all day. Bliss!

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    1. Yes. For those of us who are often bombarded by social interaction.

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  5. It sounds like a productive day to me. Your last sentence is an everyday occurrence for me. If i didn't make myself go out to gym or volunteer, i wouldnt speak to a soul all week.

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    1. I admire you for making that effort Adeline. It would be so easy not to bother.

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  6. Dry weather makes gardening so much more pleasant.

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    1. Dry, sunny weather draws me out into the garden like a magnet.

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  7. Sounds perfect to me, although I would have given the sport a miss.

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    1. You could have watched a romcom instead.

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  8. I purchased woven panels for my raised bed, which are not aging well, I will start looking out for similar long pliable twigs/sticks to remake mine. Your hard work will reap you so many benefits.

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    1. Hazel shoots and branches are probably the best I understand but from my experience horse chestnut would also be fine.

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  9. That sounds like an absolutely lovely day.

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    1. Simple and without repercussions Elle.

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  10. It's good to know Shirley has escaped for a nice time with friends.
    Rugby Union? Soccer I respect, but Rugby Union! You are such an old boy wanna be.

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    1. Don't knock it till you try it Andrew! It's not too late for you to join a seniors rugby union team and Kosov and Phyllis could try out for one of the younger squads. By the look of your profile picture you would make a good hooker.

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  11. I like a day to myself, even if it involves yardwork.

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    1. I bet Carlos enjoys a day to himself much more.

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  12. I love days when I don't speak to anyone, though they are few and far between. I admire your industriousness in tackling that border edging project. I hope it works out!

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    1. I think I will give it a go though a different tree species would probably be better.

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  13. Time alone, can be precious. You worked, and a silently cat watched.

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    1. Oh yes...well spotted David - the cat I mean!

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  14. Your time alone sounds wonderful. I love time to myself but rarely get any, especially now that Gregg has mostly retired. He'd never leave the house if he didn't have to! I hope Shirley is having fun with her friends. I'd like to do a girls' weekend away again myself soon.

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    1. Yes you should do that Jennifer! You enjoyed your last girls' trip. How about Savannah?

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  15. I have a lot of time to myself quite often. I find I end up talking aloud to myself quite a bit when I am home alone.
    You are more industrious than I am. Good luck with your project.

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    1. Do you say to yourself, "Don't be a silly billy Ellen!" ?

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  16. Glad you had a good weekend. A woven rustic border edge sounds like a good idea. There used to be a house on Stony Plain road that I drove by all the time, that had a large woven edge (six feet high) and I loved it. I have no idea if it's survived, that was years ago.
    Hope Shirley had a good time with her friends.

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    1. It's 3.15 on Sunday afternoon and she is not back yet. Maybe she met a fisherman at the coast.

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  17. I NEED time alone and am not shy in admitting it. It's good for the soul, I think. Good job on getting all that trimming done.

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  18. I've had an entire "me" day yesterday (Saturday), too. During the afternoon, it got as warm as 15 Celsius here, and I loved being out without a coat. A good long walk of roughly 18 km was just perfect, and I enjoyed every minute and every step.

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  19. Your last comment sounds like my day, today. It's been pouring with rain for most of the last 24 hours so I haven't seen a soul. Like Ellen I sometimes talk to myself, but mostly to the dog who isn't the greatest of conversationalists! No dog walk, just a quick round of the garden for some fresh air and to check everything hasn't been washed away. After the catastrophic floods in Valencia we're all very wary.
    I look forward to seeing the results of your labours and the rustic border edge.

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